Excerpt from Mouth Skills:
"Suction – In order to practice suction, we’ll work with your fingers, so choose one to suck on. Put your finger into your mouth and get a good lip seal so that you get nice, tight suction when you suck on it like a straw. You’ll know it’s right because your cheeks will suck in. Next, practice maintaining the feeling of suction as you move the length of your finger in and out of your mouth. Keep that lip seal!
Now see if you can work your tongue against your finger – around the sides and flicking back and forth across the tip – while maintaining suction. Yes, it will be different on a penis – a penis has greater girth (or width). Accordingly, feel free to practice this technique on travel-sized shampoo bottles, or anything with larger width and a fairly smooth texture. (A rough texture or wavy surface could get in the way of your lip lock.) I hope it’s a given that you’ll practice on a dildo. Just wash it first!"
More mouth, tongue, cheek, lip and teeth tricks available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
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Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Consensual Power Exchange
Forced Gagging – The Power Dynamic:
"I suspect that we’ve all seen or heard the story of a woman giving a man a blowjob. He puts his hand on the back of her head and pulls her deeper onto his cock. She chokes and angrily pushes away. She’s righteously pissed off. Why? Because this was a non-consensual act. He took control of her body without her permission. That’s NOT what we’re about in this section.
CONSENSUAL POWER EXCHANGE (The very, very basics.)
Consent – In this section, we’re talking about Consensual Power Exchange. The giver willingly gives the receiver the power to control his/her movements and actions, and the receiver takes responsibility for that power."
To learn more about the three steps involved in how I recommend that you phase your way into Forced Choking & Gagging, visit my Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
"I suspect that we’ve all seen or heard the story of a woman giving a man a blowjob. He puts his hand on the back of her head and pulls her deeper onto his cock. She chokes and angrily pushes away. She’s righteously pissed off. Why? Because this was a non-consensual act. He took control of her body without her permission. That’s NOT what we’re about in this section.
CONSENSUAL POWER EXCHANGE (The very, very basics.)
Consent – In this section, we’re talking about Consensual Power Exchange. The giver willingly gives the receiver the power to control his/her movements and actions, and the receiver takes responsibility for that power."
To learn more about the three steps involved in how I recommend that you phase your way into Forced Choking & Gagging, visit my Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
Monday, May 30, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Gagging & Choking
Excerpt from Gagging & Choking:
"What’s Sexy? – I was once deep throating a fairly large partner, and the longer we went the more my gag reflex kicked up. (This is normal, as mentioned.) At one point, I gagged hard enough to vomit a tiny amount into my mouth. I raced into the bathroom and spit into the sink.
I returned to the bedroom and said, “That is SO not sexy.”
His response? “Well, now we know that YOU don’t think that’s sexy.” Hrm? What?
Your idea of what’s sexy may not be the same as that of your partner, and many receivers find gagging incredibly hot. Nonetheless, it can be a mental and emotional challenge for givers, not to mention the physical discomfort it creates. So here’s a tip for the receivers…
Verbal Reassurance – Tell your partner how turned on it makes you when she chokes on your cock. Don’t just expect her to know, speak it out loud. Particularly when she’s doing something that may be challenging to her self-image, your reassurance that she’s not diminished in your opinion of her is very important."
More tips and tricks for intentional gagging and choking are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
"What’s Sexy? – I was once deep throating a fairly large partner, and the longer we went the more my gag reflex kicked up. (This is normal, as mentioned.) At one point, I gagged hard enough to vomit a tiny amount into my mouth. I raced into the bathroom and spit into the sink.
I returned to the bedroom and said, “That is SO not sexy.”
His response? “Well, now we know that YOU don’t think that’s sexy.” Hrm? What?
Your idea of what’s sexy may not be the same as that of your partner, and many receivers find gagging incredibly hot. Nonetheless, it can be a mental and emotional challenge for givers, not to mention the physical discomfort it creates. So here’s a tip for the receivers…
Verbal Reassurance – Tell your partner how turned on it makes you when she chokes on your cock. Don’t just expect her to know, speak it out loud. Particularly when she’s doing something that may be challenging to her self-image, your reassurance that she’s not diminished in your opinion of her is very important."
More tips and tricks for intentional gagging and choking are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
Friday, May 27, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Sloppy Blowjobs
Excerpt from Sloppy Blowjobs:
"Set the Scene – Not everyone is willing to drool and spit all over the comforter under which they’ll be sleeping in 30 minutes. If you, or your honey, are concerned with hygiene or tidiness, throw a washable blanket or a towel over the bed, sofa, or other intended play space. “Concerned about the bed spread” is not a great mental space for giving awesome head."
More tips and tricks for getting sloppy are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
"Set the Scene – Not everyone is willing to drool and spit all over the comforter under which they’ll be sleeping in 30 minutes. If you, or your honey, are concerned with hygiene or tidiness, throw a washable blanket or a towel over the bed, sofa, or other intended play space. “Concerned about the bed spread” is not a great mental space for giving awesome head."
More tips and tricks for getting sloppy are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Your Gag Reflex
Excerpt from Deep Throating:
"Love it or hate it, the gag reflex is your body’s natural defense against choking on foreign objects, and a penis counts as a foreign object. According to at least one study, however, up to one-third of healthy people don’t even have a gag reflex! If you are one of those lucky bitches, congrats! The rest of us will just have to find a way to deal with it. Here are some suggestions...
THE GAG REFLEX
Get Numb – Run the tip of your tongue backward along the roof of your mouth until the bony feeling gives way to soft flesh. This is your soft palate. The gag reflex is often triggered when something touches the soft palate, so if this little exercise made you twitch, consider the following... Topical numbing agents can be used to numb your soft palate thus diminishing your gag response.
Good Head by Doc Johnson is a gel. Squeeze some onto a Q-tip, rub it onto your hard palate, and then swallow. This will pull the gel back onto your soft palate. Apply Chloraseptic or Comfortably Numb Throat Spray as if you were using them to treat a sore throat. Aim, and spray.
WARNING: The problem with having a numb throat is that you cannot feel any damage you may be doing. There are times when it hurts because you should stop! Be aware of the risks."
More tips and tricks for helping you to give great throat are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
"Love it or hate it, the gag reflex is your body’s natural defense against choking on foreign objects, and a penis counts as a foreign object. According to at least one study, however, up to one-third of healthy people don’t even have a gag reflex! If you are one of those lucky bitches, congrats! The rest of us will just have to find a way to deal with it. Here are some suggestions...
THE GAG REFLEX
Get Numb – Run the tip of your tongue backward along the roof of your mouth until the bony feeling gives way to soft flesh. This is your soft palate. The gag reflex is often triggered when something touches the soft palate, so if this little exercise made you twitch, consider the following... Topical numbing agents can be used to numb your soft palate thus diminishing your gag response.
Good Head by Doc Johnson is a gel. Squeeze some onto a Q-tip, rub it onto your hard palate, and then swallow. This will pull the gel back onto your soft palate. Apply Chloraseptic or Comfortably Numb Throat Spray as if you were using them to treat a sore throat. Aim, and spray.
WARNING: The problem with having a numb throat is that you cannot feel any damage you may be doing. There are times when it hurts because you should stop! Be aware of the risks."
More tips and tricks for helping you to give great throat are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
Monday, May 23, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Deep Throating
Excerpt from Deep Throat Skills:
"The “Yawn” Muscle – Place your hand around your throat with full skin-to-skin contact all the way from your thumb to the tip of your index finger, as if you were going to choke yourself. Now yawn. Feel that?
A yawn is precipitated by contracting the back, or base, of your tongue, pulling it down toward your lower jaw. Put your attention on the back of your tongue and yawn again. If a doctor has ever used a tongue depressor to look at your throat, you may recognize the sensation. Your tongue is one big muscle, and a damn strong one, so contracting it in that way pushes the soft tissues of your throat further open. Can you see how this is useful?"
More tips and tricks for helping you to give great throat are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
"The “Yawn” Muscle – Place your hand around your throat with full skin-to-skin contact all the way from your thumb to the tip of your index finger, as if you were going to choke yourself. Now yawn. Feel that?
A yawn is precipitated by contracting the back, or base, of your tongue, pulling it down toward your lower jaw. Put your attention on the back of your tongue and yawn again. If a doctor has ever used a tongue depressor to look at your throat, you may recognize the sensation. Your tongue is one big muscle, and a damn strong one, so contracting it in that way pushes the soft tissues of your throat further open. Can you see how this is useful?"
More tips and tricks for helping you to give great throat are available through the Web Store at www.mmakaelnewby.com.
M. Makael Newby, 2011 - All Rights Reserved - http://mmakaelnewby.blogspot.com
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Full-Bodied Fellatio: Balls, Butts & What's In Between
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